Dysregulation

Managing or controlling emotions and behaviours, leading to outbursts, withdrawal, or unpredictable reactions.

Indicators of dysregulation

Behaviours linked to dysregulation can present in various ways. They may affect a pupil’s ability to engage with learning, follow routines, and interact positively with others. Examples include:

  • Low-level disruption: e.g., making noises, misusing equipment, shouting out, or interrupting.
  • Difficulty following instructions: e.g., resistance or misunderstanding.
  • Self-stimulatory behaviours: (used by pupils to regulate their sensory or emotional state). E.g., repetitive noises or verbalising, fidgeting, or moving around.
  • Physical responses: e.g., hurting themselves or others, or damaging equipment.
  • Avoidance behaviours:
    • Leaving the classroom or removing themselves from situations.
    • Reluctance to enter school at the start of the day.
    • Anxiety or distress at home time.

Examples of provision and strategies

  • Ensure policies and practices prioritise relationships and emotional safety. This builds trust and reduces re-traumatisation.
  • Observe behaviour patterns to understand triggers and plan adjustments, tailored to individual needs.
  • Use tools like frequency charts, STAR, and ABCC sheets to identify when and where dysregulation occurs. This enables proactive planning.
  • Use structured programmes (e.g., Zones of Regulation, Colour Monsters, 5-Point Scale) to equip learners with tools to understand and manage emotions.
  • Model emotional recognition with phrases like “I wonder if you’re tired?” to encourage self-awareness and emotional expression.
  • Share and gather information about triggers and helpful strategies with families to ensure consistent support across home and school.
  • Implement de-escalation tools. Use strategies like time-out cards and ensure all staff are informed. This provides safe ways to manage distress and maintain dignity.
  • Apply consistent, individualised approaches. Adjust behaviour policies to meet individual needs. Promotes fairness and supports emotional regulation.
  • Use reassuring strategies based on pupil voice. This ensures support is meaningful and empowering.
  • Use simple language and visuals to explain expectations. This reduces confusion and supports understanding during regulation.
  • Offer a dignified exit to allow learners to leave situations calmly when needed. This preserves self-esteem and prevents escalation.
  • Use limited choices and take-up time. Offer simple options and allow time to respond to reduce pressure and support autonomy.
  • Use non-demand language. Phrase instructions gently (e.g., “Let’s give this a go…”). This lowers resistance and encourages cooperation.
  • Allow processing time and give extra time to respond. This supports cognitive processing and reduces frustration.
  • Use distraction and responsibility. Redirect attention or offer meaningful roles to engage learners positively and reduce dysregulation.
  • Use consistent scripts. Ensure all staff use agreed language and responses to provide predictability and emotional safety.
  • Support transitions. Use visuals, timers, and pre-warnings for changes to reduce anxiety and prepare learners for new situations.
  • Complete risk assessments when needed. Assess and plan for safety in high-risk situations to protect the learner and others, ensuring safe support.
Resource Description Pricing Stage
Free resources and events - Mindfulness in Schools Project  information and resources Free Early Years, Primary, Secondary, Post 16
Therapeutic writing training offer Paid Primary, Secondary, Post 16
Toolkit of evidence-based interventions toolkit Free Early Years, Primary, Secondary, Post 16
Sensory Profile advice sheet Free Early Years, Primary, Secondary, Post 16
ABC information and resources Free Early Years, Primary, Secondary, Post 16
Strengths and Difficulties Questionnaire questionnaire Free Early Years, Primary, Secondary, Post 16
Boxall Profile   assessment and planning tool Paid Early Years, Primary, Secondary, Post 16
The Incredible 5-point Scale information and resources Free Early Years, Primary, Secondary, Post 16
ELSA self-esteem and friendship resources Free Primary, Secondary
THRIVE Whole school approach Paid Primary, Secondary, Post 16
Beano resilience lesson plans lesson plans Free Primary
Grounding techniques information and advice Free Early Years, Primary, Secondary, Post 16
Provide co-regulation advice sheet Free Early Years, Primary, Secondary, Post 16
Think Good, Feel Good (Paul Stallard) intervention Free Primary, Secondary
Draw on your emotions (Margot Sunderland) manual Paid Early Years, Primary, Secondary, Post 16
‘Volcano in my Tummy’. (Elaine Whitehouse & Warwick Pudney) programme of information and lesson plans Free Primary, Secondary
Treasure Deck cards. Therapeutic Treasure Deck of Grounding, Soothing, Coping and Regulating Cards Paid Primary, Secondary, Post 16
Bear Cards/ emotion cards. resource booklet Free Early Years, Primary
The three r's reaching the learning brain pdf free down information sheet Free Early Years, Primary, Secondary, Post 16
The Angry/Anxiety Gremlin. workbook Free Primary
Sensory audit sensory environment audit Free Early Years, Primary, Secondary, Post 16
Brain and movement breaks toolkit Free Early Years, Primary, Secondary, Post 16
Transitions information and guidance Free Early Years, Primary, Secondary, Post 16
Zones Of Regulation whole school curriculum to support emotional regulation Paid Early Years, Primary, Secondary, Post 16
ABC triggers analysis recording sheet Free Early Years, Primary, Secondary, Post 16